The Orange Hat​

A simple orange hat. I believe it can change a life. My dad loved people so well, and always wore an orange hat so my sisters and I could easily find him in a crowd. He died unexpectedly, just before my sixth birthday. I lost him before I lost my first tooth. Grief ensued, and I carried the sadness for years until I found amazing freedom in letting my anger go. Wanting others to experience the same, I began a program called “The Orange Hat,” in honor of my dad. The orange hat is a metaphor for “being seen.” My idea was to share my own story, paired with a creative process of writing and drawing, and encourage participants to confront anything hindering them from truly living. Giving people an opportunity to share their stories helps them feel understood, loved, and “seen.” I piloted the program at several women’s organizations, and the response was astounding. The women let go of insecurity, fear, rejection, and grief. They boldly shared. I left overwhelmed by the lives that were changed that day. The Orange Hat has already made a difference, and I am excited to see what the future brings.

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Sincerely, Jenny